It makes me so sad. Why cant it be fixed?? Why is it better without than with?? What about a second opinion?? This will be life-altering for everyone, this isnt to be taken lightly!!! I feel so bad. And how can they not tell him?? This affects him too!! Oh god, how will he react? He'll, surely, blame himself. There has got to be another way. If only I knew it all!! Oh god, this is a nightmare.